Moving is a major change - it is sure to stir up memories. But, it will also provide you with a new setting to make new memories. So glad to hear that you are getting the kids more often, and they will be there with you to help create the next chapter in your life. I try to prioritize most of my "have to's" for the days my kids are away (with a few just-for-me's...) and then we all get more time for the fun stuff when we are together.