Originally Posted By: gutwrenching
I suspect W just wants to make through Xmas and try to build up courage for D.


You know this is mind-reading. I will just gently point it out... On a positive note, you could look at it as the gift of time.

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A tough love approach is probably the only thing that might get her to that point.


Perhaps the LTR at the very least.

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Its not healthy for me. I don't want to become damaged goods.


I know the feeling... were you in my IC session with me today? wink

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."