My son's school has a art website in which the kids art from art class goes on and they sell tee shirts,mugs,calenders ect with the art work on it, so thats what I did, I ordered a mug with my sons art work on it for my stbx. I was totally shocked on my birthday my stbx got me 2 tickets to the rockettes show, must have been a guilt thing. but my son and I went and had a wonderful time. I want my son to see that we can be civil, he is only 6 yrs old and you learn by example as I found out my stbx learned some bad examples from his own mother, I wont make those mistakes. As hard as it is to be civil sometimes, when I look at my son it only makes me think about him growing up to be a respectful young man.