wife preparing to leave me and kids

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I believe I did I acknowledged and have been that this is what she wants I did not beg or plead for her not to.
The conversation started with her saying we need to talk about stuff neither one of us want to talk about. Then what she wants for the kids which we both agree on rt now. Then I asked well what do you want for us. She did not directly answer it was a beat around the bush conversation. Her saying she got two papers one seperation and the other.......... she didn't say D. She needs a seperation document for a mortgage. So she would or could not give me an answer so I suggested going with the MC councillors plan of a notorized seperation agreement and trying 6 months she was agreeable to that without. Argument. I was calm actively listened I did validate by saying I know you need this and want this later I did. Express how I don't like it but I am not stopping her I think we were both crying a little.