Your post brought a lot of things to my mind. people say that OW is so polite, quiet and nice! BUll. Then that is says my H did the pursuing. Which could be partially right, he made at least 6-12 phone calls to her daily. But, I thought that was considered; obsession. Well my H is not nor was he ever a pursuer. So I think miss goodie two shoes only shows her sweet side to his friends.
My H liked picking out furniture, grocery shopping, ect. I loved it as it shows he was interested in being apart of things. My H has a little of both sides. But we both like to avoid fights or confrontations. Hello this was one of our problems.
I think you have to be at a certain stage before starting to tell them your mind. But hey whatever works for each person's sitch.
I keep telling myself, patience! Because, darn I'm sick of waiting for H to bring up R talk. people if I wait for H to bring it up, it will be a cold day in hell.
Caly, told me that since I was the WAS and I kicked H out and filed for a D. I need to tell him if I have changed my mind. I did tell him I didn't want a D. But how does he know what I'm really saying. Since I also said, "let's leave things as they are". So you see, when the time is right I REALLY DO have to tell him, I want to save our M.
