Talk me out of it!

[DoneAfter10]

I've truly wondered if he is back with her b/c of his change in behavior. He was depressed and very down after he decided to file for D. Once I started the DB techniques and stopped the R talk, he got a lot better after about a week or two of that. So, I don't know if he is feeling guilty and his behavior is changing or if he is noticing the changes in me and that is prompting the change in him. I just don't know. I just know things are different. He has agreed to go to a marriage workshop in January, but I don't know the motivating factor behind it. I'm wondering if he is with the OW how he is going to explain to her that he won't be available for 3 days in January....This is all so confusing and hard. Some days I feel hope, others I just don't know anymore. But, I can't give up yet. I have to have faith in God.