My H cut off contact with OW after thanksgiving and was VERY depressed and withdrawn. His actions towards me got so bad compared to when he was with OW. I realized that having contact with OW lifted his spirits up and made him happy with me and the family as well, and now, he is half crazed I think.
Over the weekend, he suddenly became cheerful, and I started being suspicious. True enough, just found out he is trying to contact OW again, on the pretext of some work related stuff (they used to work together).
Keep your guard up! But try to enjoy the night with Santa. For you, for your baby, and also to give him memories of good times, which could be part of him getting attracted to going back to you and the family.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
