"she misses getting dressed and turns to ask me how she looks and im not there but follows up with i dont know why im saying that he never did that anyway"
Is this true? Before all this happened, have you ever tried building up your W's self image? After an A the LBS is usually devastated and has their self-esteem shattered. Did you ever try to build that back up for her and make her the most important person in your life?
If after your A, you didn't do that and instead continued to be jealous and controlling, I can see why your W had reached the end of her rope.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
