Can I Get My Wife Back

[DoneAfter10]

Right now the plan is to just continue on with the 180s. I'm still avoiding R talk. I'm being upbeat and a friend to him. He is more relaxed around me and is doing nice things for me and acting more like himself at times. I'm not sure if all of this is from guilt or if the changes I'm making are impacting him. He has supposedly filed for D, but I have not been served. He has agreed to go to a marriage seminar in January, but I'm not sure if it's b/c he feels guilty or if he thinks there may be a possibility at reconciling. He has rented his own apt, but he's been gone from home for over a month anyway. He is coming to stay the night to help with baby and we are taking her to get pic made with Santa. So I guess I will just do more of what I've been doing to see where it gets me.