I'm Mystik, 32. H is 34. DS is 6 and a half. We have been living apart for two years. H is living with his mistress, aka OW or Whore, and they now have a baby, aka It or Bastard Child. OW also has another child, Whore's Brat.
However, H never bothered to finish filing the separation papers so we are not even legally separated yet let alone divorced. Not a pleasant situation for me at all.
I'm pretty much an open book so any questions, just ask. I’m sticking with newcomers because despite being here a year, I’m no further along in the process and I’m not really sure what other forum I would fit into. Is it an affair when he left me before he moved in with OW? We’re not at the divorcing point yet, he has to save up the money to file.