Sorry i post so much, but the latest is i have not contacted her in a week just seems like she is happy and moving on with her life even though she hasn't filed yet that i know of. just wish i knew if she ever though about us and what we have lost. At least her best friend has added me back to Facebook and other things and is talking to me again. Her Facebook status still says we are married and my son says all the family pictures are still up, including the ones of just me and her.