H's MLC - he is still lost but I found myself

[Mila]

Thank you BM, SA & Punkin

I feel that we are drifting further and further away from each other with H....in my mind when I go over the last year, there were times where he would show confusion, feelings forwards me, concern....emotions....now I see nothing....I guess as he builds a stronger relationship with OW, the less I matter.

Yesterday we talked a bit with D after she told me about the store visit....Obviously it must have affected her since she had the need to tell me about it, but she didn't seem angry or outraged....more of a "guess what happened mom". I said "Dad probably wants you to get used to it" and she replied "I'm used to it".
Another thing she said in our conversation "I'm not excusing what Dad did, but he told me that he didn't do it on purpose, didn't plan on this happening, It just happened".....I replied it doesn't just happen, we always have choices.

I'm sure that he is painting himself in the best possible colors when he talks to D about what he did....and I don't really want to talk to her about the details and the business and financial consequences of this on our family, I'm being so careful not to say anything that could be interpreted as blaming him in front of her.

BM - I'll make a post on DB/FB, you will be able to see that