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[kat727]

Does he know you can see his account activity?

So maybe it is time for the "If we are going to make a real go of this these are the ground rules",talk. If he doesn't want to make a go, well he knows where the door is.

The thing is Mish, boundaries haven't clearly been defined since you guys started back up. While I don't condone the hotel stay, the way things stand at the moment, I am not sure he owes an explanation. If you are going to really have a relationship, all this needs to be talked about.

So 3 options: The talk, Status quo or the door. You pick.

hugs, kat