Ok...have to spill it here before I'm tempted to call Gabe and unload all of my anxiety and suspicions.

I logged in to my bank account this morning checking on my balance (which is low in the extreme) and to see what Gabe's balance is since he hadn't given me any of the money he was due to pay the beginning of the month. Of course, that is my fault since I told him it could probably wait until he got back from CA since he left on the 1st. WRONG! frown The account he uses is what was our joint account so it is still linked to all of my accounts on my side but he can't see any of my accounts...clever, I know. smile Anywho...I opened his account to check the balance and noticed that he stayed in a hotel the night of 2DEC. He told me he was at his mom's that night and he has been staying with his friend the nights he hasn't been at her place supposedly. The alarm bells are ringing loud and clear. Why was he in a hotel? Who was he meeting up with? WTF is going on? GAG! I can't handle this. I may blow a gasket any minute!!!!!

HELP! Talk me down please....:(


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!