Talk me out of it!

[DoneAfter10]

Husband went ahead and rented his apartment. He told me last night, "Well, I finally have a place to live now." I simply responded, "That's good." I don't like that he made that step (even though he hasn't been living at home for over a month now) b/c he had to sign a 6 month lease. But, I know it isn't the end of the world either. I just have to keep doing to DB/180s. The next 4 weeks are critical b/c I don't want anything to happen that will make him change his mind about going to the marriage seminar. I have a session with my DB coach tonight, so I'm looking forward to that.
Husband and I are taking baby to get her pic made with Santa tonight. I asked him last night if he wanted to go and he said he would. I'm excited, but nervous at the same time. I want it to be a fun family event that is low-key and light hearted, so we can both relax and have fun. I also want him to see that he is missing out on so much by being away from his wife and daughter. I hate it for him that he is choosing to live apart from us b/c this time with his daughter (especially with her growing and changing everyday) is time he can never get back....