My other thread was getting to long. My wife had an EA/PA it is over and no contact as far as I and OM spouse can tell for 2 plus weeks he told my W and txt her to leave him alone. She has been very angry. Yesterday she said she went to the courthouse and got papers so she could get her own mortgage she would not say if they were D papers. I can only assume that. She said we can agree or use lawyers. I initially asked so does this mean we are done, she did not respond. She says she needs her own space I have not been blocking that but she wants to buy it takes time. I am being nice and backed off. Then more talking she says she is done never wants to feel like this again she will grow old alone. I say we haven't even worked through the feelings what if we went to someone who deals specifically with this situation wether we D or not we still have to parent together. A couple hours later I get back home she is in a fine mood we discuss her finishing xmas shopping gifts for grandparents etc. Some of the gifts are ones to add to each year and she talks like there is no end to us. My IC said let her lead the parade but protect myself. But is there anything to do to rekindle this marriage. I know the GAL. The 180 I need to reread. It just seems pointless. With her comment she seems to be a mix of MLC WAW and in the fog. As much as the A hurts I really like my family whole. I welcome any advice.
23 years friends 15 As a couple 5. Children 9 weeks since dday Ea was over summer supposedly Om NC message 2.5 weeks ago she has not actually asked for divorce. says she was checking out of R before the A
H 37 WW 37 M 15 5 Children Bomb 9-27-10 W EA/Pa she filed 12-18-10
