Moving Forward

[gutwrenching]

Evolve
Don't worry about not being with me for a long time. That isn't relevant. You actually know me and my sitch better than most. I do value your input as well as everyone else's. I am processing it all. I've received so many inputs yesterday it was almost too much...but that is good. In the end, I have to make this decision. Sorry, can't quite say where/how I got other inputs or risk getting banned from here. Some of the advice was good, some wasn't.

I am a person who trusts my gut. My gut is telling me that MC is square filling for her so she can say to me, the kids, and family/friends, look I tried. So...I am still debating whether I will go to MC with her with OM still in the middle of things. IC certainly...for both of us...but not sure about MC

I am not looking for the answers I want to hear, because that answer doesn't exist. That magic pill that takes away all the pain and makes W forget OM doesn't exist.

Evolve, I value our friendship, don't be afraid to speak your mind, I appreciate hearing from you and your thoughts