That very thing happened to our D32. She is the security officer at a Wal-Mart Super Store and saw him and OW on her security screens. Yes, she could have let it pass, but it upset her. She went down, walked up behind him, tapped him on the shoulder and asked if there wasn't another place he could f@@@@ shop without rubbing it in her face. He hasn't been back in her store to this day. But your D is much younger, and not able to handle herself as well.
I wish I could give you invaluable advice on the SA, but my H took one look at my first proposal and shut down. Whether they like it or not, marriage is a BUSINESS, and the BUSINESS of divorce is not pleasant.
Why do so many MLC'rs initiate this but are unable to see the big picture beats me. Everything they do beats me.
