when was script is not script

[Jstar]

update: supposedly h did not work on monday, he picked kids up at work in am, brought d3 back for school. i asked him to bring s9months so i could feed him, i forgot my bpump.

h stayed and ate with d and s in my classroom, we pretty much had NO conversation what so ever. i made a comment about s being in pjs again, so i gave h 2 scenarios, to allow him to choose how he would have me speak to him about this: i chose 1 of how i usualy say it, firm, cold and then one in sweet voice, all flirty, he smiled and blushed when i did that.

he was late yet again to drop kids off, and started to get pissy on the phone trying to explain why he was late, i tried to explain to him that it puts me and kids back an hour, with dinner bedtime, etc, that it was unfair to do that to us etc. etc.so he brought the kids home, not without some drama, his i'll give you 5 minutes to answer where you are so i can drop kids off or i'm leaving and taking kids to his moms house. he was making comments about me having a boyfriend.

finally after the exchange,i thought about what he said, i texted him, that i could see through all his comments about me having a boyfriend, him saying see that's why i don't want to be married to you were signs of doubt on his part and that he realized i'm attractive to other men, i'm not waiting around for him. in some of his digs to me, he says, i was kicked out, i said you left your family, i said you had the option of returning, he said i chose to leave because i don't like you. all so childish. there has never been a moment where he has said any comments of his feelings or lack of feelings, only when he is angry

since i did get a smile out of him when i was sweet and flirty i will try it again to see how he responds. he will probably have a mind meltdown, why is she being so nice.....