BM - you did send him a message, where you a letting him know that you love him and you care, but you are letting him go if that's what he needs. If it was meant to be just that, that would be OK. However I you are expecting that this will make him "wake up" you may be setting yourself up for disappointment and more hurt. Ask yourself honestly....what would you like him to reply to this? What are your expectations?

Please have NO EXPECTATIONS...I just don't want you to be disappointed....

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO