Starting on a different path

[newmama]

Hi Mystik,
just getting caught up. Glad you got your tree, and the sadness about memories is bound to be there every time you see those things, but not as sad over time. You are definitely sounding stronger and I'm sorry your DS was sick...but sounds like he is on the mend!

About the picture....your S seems to "get it." Your his mom, his dad's his dad, and the new baby is his "(half) brother." No OW in there at all....or her other son (she does have another child, right?)

Oh, and I doubt that filing for D will make anyone not want to reconcile in the future-- "What? You wanted to divorce me when I cheated on you, got another woman pregant and left you and our son for her?! How could I ever forgive you for filing for divorce?" see how ridicilous that looks!