Twink - I think that this was a very positive interaction with H. Has this happened before, relaxed evening with wine and talking, or do you see this as progress?
And BTW no 2x4s from me either....you are past the anger/guilt stage I believe, so I don't think that statement had negative impact...the opposite, I think it's a good sign that you can be honest and he doesn't flip out.
Keep doing what you are doing
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO