It's not over till it's over right?

[newmama]

Lost, I am not going to pressure you into exposing. I never exposed to exH's work and I don't regret it. I am just wondering though if a teacher could get FIRED for having an affair-- I don't see the reasoning.

I have heard of rules against people dating, but they won't get fired!

And why assume your H would have to leave the building? Why wouldn't the homewrecker OW??? Who has more experience, you know?

Again, I am asking this NOT TO TALK YOU INTO exposure but because I am sick and tired of Wayward spouses telling their LBS that they will get fired if they were exposed when it isn't true. (in cases where it isn't true, that is)

Oh and this:

I think the plan is to keep it underground until we officially divorce, and then make it look like they just got together.

is EVERY WS' plan. It is so frustrating to see them all act so similarly!!! However, people will figure it out when they were such good friends right before the divorce and suddenly your H isn't so upset over the divorce and instead is flaunting his "new" girlfriend.

Where are you in the divorce process again?