I once read that the LRT is like the Dobson letter that you write and never send. So do that. Write it. Don't send it. Write it, don't send it. We can tweak your LRT from that.
When you write it, it might help you get a sense of some things--tweak it with a sense of what you want MORE of rather than just what you don't want.
Sending it though, can be a point of no return. It has great results for some, and disastrous for others.
Write it and post it if you want. But definitely post your vision for your marriage.
