Thank you for sharing. In particular, this (below) jumped out at me.
Originally Posted By: Holly06
I believe that this crisis invaded each of our lives as a wake up call from God. He tried other ways to bring us back to Him, but somehow we resisted. So he brought out the shattering of what we hold most dear. Ultimately, it is up to Him, if you completely give it to Him. I think He had a plan for me, and I asked for His guidance every step of the way.
We are all thrilled for you and REALLY appreciate your willingness to share here. It is very encouraging to see you moving toward R after D. We are all rooting for you.
Thank you for your willingness to field questions. My XH and I are D'ed for 1 year but we moved into the friendship zone this summer. Throughout September, October, and early November we played table tennis once a week --- we had a standing game, so this is definite progress from 2 years ago, right after the bomb when H was very angry and all of our contact was ONLY about the D settlement.
I am curious whether you think there is anything different about the process of moving toward one another AFTER the D is final? Your thoughts would be appreciated when you have a chance.
