Thanks for your input NM and awest. Unfortunately my husband's school corp is one elementary, one middle, and one highschool all in the same building. So there would be no hope of him getting transferred. My best bet, in order to keep my own financial situation as stable as possible, is to keep my mouth shut. Which is so frustrating b/c the two of them are continuing the hang out with each other and at the very least are having an EA. I think the plan is to keep it underground until we officially divorce, and then make it look like they just got together. For whatever reason they just don't seem to fear exposure. The ow's husband caught them 2 months before I did, and threatened to expose them then, and they kept up the affair until I found out when they supposedly stopped it. But word has it they are still in each other's rooms all of the time, and I caught them emailing each other again. But exposing, it sounds like, really could cause them to lose their jobs. I need my child support to be able to keep the house. The whole situation that he has put me/ son in is just a mess, and he doesn't seem to care. It makes absolutely no sense!
