So I'm starting to worry that I might not be doing the right thing or acting the right way. Things have been fine between us at home, we get along great...just like friendly roommates, buddies. She even asked me what I was doing Friday night and met me at our friends house. The thing is, one of her complaints with our R was that we'd become more like buddies, good roommates. Is our joking around reinforcing that thought? Should I be even more distant and spend more time away from the house?

I don't follow her around or necessarily wait for her to do things, but we still have dinner together sometimes and still hang out and watch tv together. Should I stop these things. It's hard because I still just want to be around her all the time, and now that she's happier I want to even more.

Any thoughts?

M:28
W:28
Together:13yrs
high school sweethearts
Married:2
currently filing
living separately