Zen,

You sound great. IMHO, sounds like you are doing exactly what you need to be doing. That was my approach almost to a tee. What that plan ^^^^ allows you to do is focus on YOU and D. H becomes a very minor factor. It helps your mentality and it helps you continue to be the best YOU can be. My H would call and text me about random stuff just like yours. It seems they need to keep that tether. Stick to your guns like you are. You sound great!


"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"

M18
Me39,H42
D16
Bomb 1/10
Moved out 3/10
OW 6/10
H wants to R,OW gone 11/10
H moves back 5/11
H wants to wear rings again 9/11