I just wanted to let you know that your post was great. I feel more empowered reading post like yours. Though I wish my H called to check on me, but he doesn't. He is so involved with OW and finding things to blame me for that he doesn't even care what I am up to. I lost my job one week after he left and do you even think he has asked me once about the job hunting? No! I get so frustrated and at times my patience runs low, but I know I need to keep that patience high and focus on taking care of me. I live in a small town of 1500 people and getting out is not so easy, the closest place to go is 30 mins and not having money right now, I really worry about gas. But you have inspired me to try to do something more.
I am sorry this kind of rambled on! But these days, I try not to make sense of too much.
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.