She then stated that he has been encouraging her to sit down with me and talk things out and identify what further changes she wants to see in me to improve the marriage. (I find this statement hard to believe!)
You can find many posts here on the board where the WAW will claim the OM is just a good friend, and then go on to claim that he was even encouraging her to stay in the M.
This is the part that you can't believe anything they say.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
