But what about the situation where the SO who is wanting the D is not at a place where they are reasearching etc. They are still looking at the withdrawal, self needs, Op stuff and it is the one who was left behind who is improving and trying to save things.
Such as in my case. (Of course W could be doing these things and just not saying anything!) Hope Hope!! I have told her that I am in this BB group and I have sent her Michele's and Dr. Harley's home page info. SO I guess I am making an unfair judgemetn by saying that she is not doing these things too.
I just assume that if she were, she would say something to bring things back to a more positive light. Maybe?? Or would she think that keeping the pressure on will force it home better?
