Don't get me wrong. I believe in standing. I believe that it is the only way to truly start this process. I believe that it showed me strength I didn't know I had.
Originally Posted By: TAMF
I also know that deep down I really want this attention from my H.
^^^ This wasn't true for me.
My advice, based on what you've written above...
Stop. Now.
But you know this already. You are CHOOSING not too.
WHY?
Oh, and have you considered that it might not be you that gets hurt? Do you really want to be responsible for hurting someone else? That's not guilt ... it's a straightforward question.
Our lives are as complicated as we make them.
CHOICES.
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
