And this is where I get to use my IC's favorite term for my ex--- "Crazymaker"! Sounds like your H is a crazy-maker, or at least he wants to be one, so he is probably bummed that he isn't getting to you more with his antics.
So, go ahead, spend the money on the D, then get back together? Interesting logic there...
And I want to see Black Swan too! I was in ballet for all my K-12 years! Too bad we don't live closer, I would go with you!