"So my wife is coming over tonight to talk. She's going to tell me she's done and will be pursuing the divorce. Doesn't matter how I know this...I just do."
Yeah. Stop projecting this. I can smell your fear over the computer. Listen to what she has to say. Validate the points you need to and if she states that you two should divorce, just say that you understand that she feels that and your understanding is that things can work out. Just state things as business and let her do the talking. Take mental notes of what she says and journal them later.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.