WOW, I just ended up in a relationship talk over the phone. Hard to avoid when she won't let go.
It started with a text" "I can't be what you want me to be."
I asked her what she meant when she called; she said "June Cleaver." It is pretty obvious that we are not that from these posts!
Here's the thing: she insists the 4 months since the PA has been an eternity and she wants resolution now.
She also wants a multitude of possible outcomes from therapy because she says she is unhappy. The way to be happy-to never have to feel like anything is permanent in her life ever. For every day to be a decision.
BTW-the friends that she hangs out with pretty much live this way,like Bohemians. Not actually worried about another PA right now.
I told her, you know, you kinda have that anyway. And said I understood.
I tried to say I understand as much as possible while sticking to my guns where needed, and told her this whole thing really should be in a therapy session.
