Thanks Jon. I contested, well my lawyer had me contest because I don't believe in D but also so I can get spousal when I start getting it for a while longer. So it was for financial reasons and my beliefs.
My problem is I don't know what to say to H if he asks why I contested. Any suggestions???
I also posted on my other thread. I don't know why H is kissing butt. Could use some help on that one too.
Can you check that post out too and let me know what you think?
