She seems to get herself stuck in feelings, and has trouble taking the first or continuing steps to solve her problems. What can I do to help?
CL, you're obviously a kind man and show love for your wife by wanting to help 'fix'. However, I think the biggest thing you can do to help her right now, is to take a step back, and deal with your own anxiety around allowing her to solve her own problems.
When your W gets 'stuck in her feelings'... what is it that YOU are feeling? Can you share that with us?
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
