Heartbroken: I wish I had a penny for everytime someone has told me I'm being too easy on my WAH and that I don't need to be so nice to him. Well, being mean, putting guilt trips on him, and begging/pleading weren't working--only pushing him further away. So, I've learned to follow my heart, do the DB/180s and those are the only things that have helped. Those things involve doing nice things for my husband---if he comes to stay overnight to help with our baby--I try to have a meal prepared so he has something to eat. I buy snacks that he likes. I will buy candy that he likes and give it to him before he leaves. I don't go overboard--just small gestures to show my appreciation. Sometimes, we just have to shut out what everyone else says--especially if they are telling us things we know to be counter productive--and follow our heart.
M-32, WAH 32 D-7 months Bomb of PA 9/25 WAH left 10/24 D Filed by WAH
