CajunRose, I think you might be right. I do believe I may have to impose a ban on her visits unless she has my permission.
Boundaries ARE GOOD and HEALTHY IF you are able to enforce them. So, before you go off and set one make sure that you are prepared to deal with the crossing of it i.e. it may push you to a place where you do not want to be. Just keep that in mind.
Want to reiterate...I DO AGREE with a boundary.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
