Sorry to hear about the new BS from your H. Dragging the D out now because he doesn't want you as a wife but also doesn't want you to see someone else...so immature, indecisive and unattractive. He seems to make these random decisions based on emotions alone- real men take emotions into consideration but act thoughtfully and deliberately. I'd tell him in a calm way he can try to drag the D out that's his choice but if he thinks that will have a positive influence on the outcome then he's wrong again. You've already made him an offer, either he can stop the D or get the hell outta the way. There's nothing else to discuss or talk about...goodbye, be gone.

Congrats on doing well on your exam. I can't even imagine going through all this BS and being able to do well on tests, you're doing a great job.

Snow sounds awesome at this time of the year!


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again