Lying and Cheating

[midlifewife]

I think someone just tried to serve me the papers finally, what do I do? I did not answer the door, I dont answer for any strangers, but I am so scared now. I think I am done, my oldest found love letters in his dads apt from the ow last night and is just devasted, he suspected something but is not and should not have to deal with this. I am so upset and dont know what to do. If I accept I only have a certain number of days to respond but cant afford a retainer to get a lawyer, I dont know what to do. Can I get in trouble for evading this guy trying to serve me? of course this is all my fault