Hi Kissak....sweetie, this is though isn't it, what can I say that would help you through this...not much accept to listen and offer moral support. When you get really down just remember what it was like when he was at home and would you want that back....

What helps me sometimes is to think that this is what we both must do...the universe is teaching us a lesson....my H has things to learn and so do I....and what we must learn we can't learn by being together, we must do that apart. Once we have learned those lessons, maybe then we could find our way back to each other.

Yeah the weight loss is a MLC perk, isn't it (insert sarcastic smirk)...but seriously, if loosing weight is what you want, it is a good thing...it will help you with your confidence and feeling good about yourself....you see everything has a positive side smile


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO