Talk me out of it!

[tank]

listen to cadet on this. He is just testing his waters to see if he can cake eat.

Keep your boundaries in place, it was good to validate the good actions he did for you. keep it simple.

Do not open yourself up for hurt. You will know when he is truly ready to talk about the relationship and if he wants to work on it.

Until then, stay positive, work on you. Dont read into his actions. Just validate the good ones.

Your doing great by the way.