GAL with waw. Stuck bad.

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Thank you for the reply. I actually want to thank my wife for doing this. If this would not have happened, nothing would have changed for me. I was already looking at myself before this happened and I did not like myself. I was tired of being mad all the time. I was in the process of finding stuff about myself when this all happened. If I wasn't happy with myself, how can I blame her for wanting out.
My GAL is wanting to be at home, with the kids and my wife and that is what makes me happy. Doing everything I have missed. It is amazing how much closer the kids and I are in such a short period. I was not happy before. I spend time at home now, and I am happy. This is what was missing in my life. I have figured out what I want. The proplem is, this is probably what she wanted also, but now she doesn't.
My point is, will my GAL hurt my chances with my wife? Being at home is what I need to be happy, but she needs space. If it is all about making myself happy I should be home everynight playing with the kids and doing all the family stuff I have been missing.
This is the man I want to be. It is what makes me happy. I would be happier if I could show some love to her also, but that isn't happening now. I can not give space by going out. Going out makes me miserable. I can try to give her as much space as possible but I am going to have to do it while being in the house.