Yep, it sounds like mid life crisis. What many have realized through time is that no matter what you do it is not going to change the crisis or make him come to his senses any faster. So my advice to you is to set firm boundaries, don't let him play with your emotions by coming going, wanting, not wanting, etc... If this is true mlc, it is going to take a while, maybe years. I am on my 4th year. I wish I would have realized sooner that my behavior won't speed this process up. You can put so much emotional energy into this, but it does not matter. You must protect yourself and you babies.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
