Yes my H is in a MLC - he fits the description so much its scary. We had a rough road these past 6 months. I wasnt at my best - he was shutting down and I started nagging - our marriage is falling apart- I am lonely --- we are roomates --- then he started going out and coming home at all late hours of the night.... we had two huge fights and then he said I want to get separated --- next breath was I want a divorce - my friend says its as easy as we want to make it. He moved in with his mom - has only seen the babies one weekend - two other times --- we have been separated 3 weeks. I love this man with all of my heart --- I didnt know how to act when he was pulling away --- he lost his father and best friend last year in October and I think he started shutting down soon after that but I didnt see it.
