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[ScaredinCanada]

Ok, another small thing that has worked me up a little. I've let it go, and I'm not going to say anything about it to my W.

When I got home with the kids yesterday from being away for the night on Saturday I was making the kids dinner and I was putting away the dishes that were on the drying rack. Included was a single wine glass.

Now for most people this wouldn't seem like much, but my W NEVER drinks wine. She didn't make any mention of having ANYONE over, and I find it strange that if she did she would leave something out that would make me suspicious.

I wasn't planning to say anything since I feel like I'm on edge right now and bound to jump to conclusions. I want to avoid looking clingy, calling her out on this is probably not something I want to do.

Does anyone think she's testing me? Do you think she wanted me to see the glass? I've decided to not say anything to her about it, because I imagine if I did she'll say she had a girlfriend over and didn't think to mention it too me.

She's been calling me similar to how she did in the past in order to ask me questions about things or to plan for dinner (which she hadn't been doijng for about a week or so), I try to answer he questions as best I can and be the one to end the coversation - in which she usually sounds disappointed or sad at end.

Also I've e-mailed my mother a number of times over the last few days where we discussed the issues as well as normal "How are the kids" type conversation. I told my mother than there is major friction between her and my W that has not been resolved, and that I felt it needed to be resolved whether we stay together or not. In her initial reply she completely ignored the statements about my W, so I replied and said "You understand the problems that exist between you and my W and that you need to apoligize to her for the way you have treated her, and that is fact" to which she finally replied that she understood and new that was the truth.

I'm not sure when exactly this is going to happen, as they are not talking at all - I'm not sure how or when it can happen. I'm at least happy that my mother acknowledges it.

Should I tell me W that my mother has acknowledge that she owes her an appology??

Anyways, just needed to get this off my chest. Venting as per usual.