If and when she makes a choice, that does not automatically mean that I accept anything. Why do people assume that if I do not throw her out on her ear that I "accept" her infidility?

I cannot forcibly stop her from doing this or that. She knows I don't "accept" her choices. I have already tried the threats and that only made matters worse. My number one concern right now is my children and I will do what I think is best for them. They don't need to see their mother crawling around in the driveway picking up all her crap bacause of mean ol dad.


Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."