Thanks for steering me to "stop wasting personal energy". I hate to admit it but I see some of your husbands traits in myself (the need for emotional/physical intimacy, affirmation, etc) and although My major goal is to work on myself, it is difficult to not be obsessed with the whole situation. I wish that my w where like you and would talk about things more but i am always the one who initiates any discussion. I guess it is since I am the most insecure right now. I've sworn to stop initiating any discussions of "us", I wont say "i love you" anymore and I wont initiate any physical touching adn kissing since I always get rejected and she's not ready for it. Again thanks for your input. I appreciate more than you can imagine.
I actually had a much more detailed post but the damn pc froze up on me. Talk to you later.
