I don't know what she wanted entirely. On Oct 31 we had a date, but she started crying and over dinner told me that she DIDN'T WANT ME. I was the wrong kind of guy... that she could only be in love with someone who met extremely specific criteria that I do not meet.
Nothing has been the same since. I paniced and exposed her; her mom came to visit for a few days. They had a good time but her mom urged her to seek therapy, which she still refuses to do. After her mom left she told me she would never trust me again.
I left town for 9 days a couple of days after her mom left. As the train was leaving, she called and asked if we could meet for coffee.
Obviously not... and we never talked about things. So last night, she said as I was going to bed, "I guess were're never going to talk?"
All of our relationship talks have been disasters, and we are worse off now than ever. We still have good conversation and had been watching TV, but that does not mean she likes it.
